Dear Darren,
The holidays always gives me a chance to reflect and remember all the special times I’ve enjoyed with you as you have been growing up. One thing that really stands out is the amount of time we spend together. That will certainly be something that I will forever cherish. It did make me think back to that first Letter that I wrote you and Matt, “i know it hasn’t always been easy and i know that i haven’t always let you walk on your own because it was much easier to love you and carry you…even when i knew you should do it yourself.” I can tell that it is time for me to step back and give you your space. I have spent so much time and effort trying to protect you that I take away the chance for you to learn from mistakes, to grow from failure and to build confidence through success. For years, I’ve told you to be careful, but today. today I’m saying… Take flying lessons. Start that business. Ask out the girl in class, even if you’re afraid of rejection. This is your time. <3
Love you always,
mom xo
please continue to travel through this blog circle of amazing women, starting with my very talented friend, Linda Hooper.
Katrina - You brought tears to my eyes this morning, Lisa. It’s so hard, as a mom, to say those words, but yes, you know when it’s time. <3 I see the time coming for me as well, slowly…but I'm getting glimpses. Oh, a mom's heart has to be strong to love and love and love, and to be able to let go.
You, my friend, are a wonderful mom, and I know your boys (and girls) are well-prepared for the next stage of their lives. They will do well. And they'll know they always have you there. <3
Kristin Dokoza - I am truly so happy to be a part of this blog circle so that I can read your words to your boys. I’m always aware of how much I should protect, and when is the right time to let them learn from their mistakes. It’s so hard! Beautiful words, that I will remember.
Tracy - Your photograph is absolutely mesmerizing. I keep coming back to it. His gaze is so intense, but still kind and connected to you. I’m really drawn into it. And your letter resonates so much with me. I am holding to my children so tightly, wanting to protect them so deeply. And I too find myself saying “be careful” so much. I can tell that you’ve laid such a strong and good foundation for them, one that will hold them long in life.
Allison McSorley - Well, this one just makes me want to go have a good cry, Lisa. <3 You are such a wonderful and loving mother. Being a good parent is all about knowing when to protect and when to let go, isn't it? You've done an amazing job raising the boys and I can tell that they will always be close to you no matter where life takes them. Hugs to you, my friend. <3
Emma Wood - Such wise and sweet words to your Son Lisa, I totally get this and have felt the same so many times. It’s so hard to let them go, when we want to hold on so tight – a Mamas love is such a fierce one no matter how old our children are. Hugs <3
Kimberly - I always love reading your letters Lisa. I can only imagine how hard this transition may be, but he sure looks strong and prepared to face the world. My mom allowed me to learn from my mistakes but initially laid such a solid foundation that I always came back to those values she instilled. Mother’s are so important to the future of this world and you are doing a wonderful job!
Faye - Oh Lisa…I love this letter and the image is breathtaking. I feel like that day is looming out there in the future for me too, when I will have to let my little ones fly. Gosh, I say “be careful” all the time. You are such a good mom to know when to step back and let them fly. I hope I can do that too, when the time comes.